Yes, I think there are many ways. But I think that trust and confidence is low. People are not willing to move forward. Nonetheless, it should be noted that mosques, churches and synagogues have been dialoguing in various parts of the country. There is an exchange happening, but it is not at a point of critical mass. It is low-level and while such exchanges are opening hearts and minds, there is always more to be done. The need is always there.

Perhaps writing a poem, painting a portrait, composing music, planting olive trees in the promised land.  Maybe we start a SIRIUS radio station that can be heard every where and where we just talk and get others to call, email and chat with us!

Well, such cooperation in the arts does have an affect, albeit minimal. Will it change foreign policy? Will it spark peace in the Middle East? No. But it does help to humanize the ways that political and military avenues do not.

Besides, my voice is really bad and my tone is even worse. If I want to really annoy my husband, I sing to him!!! So I think we would fail miserably in the singing department, actually we would probably cause more conflict than peace–at least between the two of us!

What Muzzammil Hassan has done to his wife is reprehensible, sick and horrendous. But I would not be so quick to label this murder an honor killing. What is an honor killing anyway?  I would not be so quick to conclude that Islam or even Pakistani culture has anything to do with what this man has done. Perhaps he got in a fight with his wife and decided to kill his her then and there.  In America, this is murder, plain and simple.  So let us not blame the murderer’s or the victim’s culture or religion without knowing the facts behind this terrible killing. We should blame the murderer himself, who like other murderers  before him, have put aside all religious and ethical values in committing his crime.

All I can say is Inna lillah wa inna ilayhi rajiun “We come from God and to God we shall return.”

According to National Women Abuse Prevention Project,  34% percent of the women homicide victims over age 15 are killed by their husbands, ex-husbands or boyfriends.

Below are some more interesting statistics that put this case into perspective

The National Crime Victimization Survey found that in 2005:

• Intimate partner violence occurs across all populations, irrespective of social, economic, religious or cultural group. Young women and those below the poverty line are disproportionately affected.

• Nearly 5.3 million intimate partner victimizations occur each year among U.S. women ages 18 and older. This violence results in nearly 2 million injuries and 1,300 deaths.

• 44% of women murdered by their intimate partner had visited an emergency department within two years of the homicide. Of these women, 93% had at least one injury visit.

• Seventy-four percent of all murder-suicides involved an intimate partner. Of these, 96% were females killed by their intimate partners and 75% of those incidents occurred in the home.

David, I think that people always take risks by doing something that is considered unpopular. Certainly, we are both taking risks but if it means being examples of how two people from two totally different backgrounds and perhaps opinions can get along, then I am all for it!

It has taken a long time and many years of working in the same office to get to this juncture and actually posting a joint blog. Living in America, I have always been around people of other faiths, particularly of the Jewish faith. One thing we usually always agreed upon was not to talk politics because we would surely disagree.

It’s my hope that the combination of your chutzpah and my prayers will lead to a substantive dialogue that is a mix of culture, politics, personal ruminations and fun.

Turkey’s stance on Gaza has been better than the Arabs. But as you said, Israel and Turkey, both have to gain by maintaining their strong relations. Turkey will not likely risk its military partnership with Israel. Perhaps there needs to be a Chinese intervention. It has influence in the world and it wants to be a leader among nations. But seriously, I think Turkey’s stance has been strong. But until Arab nations can put aside their differences and come to a unified stance, negotiations between Israel and the Arab world will likely fail and the prospect for peace will be yet further away.